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Stubborn Independence - when it’s gone to her head. We’re not for a minute suggesting that all women should be damsels’ in distress or completely helpless, on the contrary, but girls, some of you go too far. Most men like to be able to show a little chivalry now and then without being told in ‘no uncertain terms’, “I can do it myself”! Girls, let them be gallant and stop knocking them for it, in fact relax, get over yourself and enjoy it.

Unreliability – Do what you say you’re going to do, Be where you say you’re going to be. Answer your damn phone. Respond to text messages. Be on time and don’t change plans at the drop of a hat and not tell him in time or at all. It’s about being polite and considerate. Yeah! Just the way you want to be treated, Right!

The Clock - Not the one on the wall, the biological one. Don’t let him know that it’s ticking so loud that you can’t concentrate on his conversation. Don’t stress constantly about where the relationship is going because despite popular belief, men are sensitive to the signals sent out by women in this category and pretty soon you will probably find you have no relationship to stress about. Relax and enjoy!

Nice Boys v Bad Boys – Stop whinging that there are no nice guys left, that you only ever get to date the bad boys, the egotists and the freaks. Don’t always blame them, take an honest look at yourself. Are you perhaps boorish and/or high maintenance? Scaring the nice guys off? Just asking!

Fluffy Toys – Animate and Inanimate. Don’t treat your pets like a pseudo boyfriend or child. Love them sure but keep it in perspective. They, the good boys’, told us that endless conversations about your puppy dogs, pussy cats and/or teddy bears bore them shitless so not more than one mention per meeting. Yes, they are soooo cute and the things they do are soooo cute but, ENOUGH!

Don’t shoot the messenger just relax and enjoy!