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Having trouble getting your man to go south? For some unfathomable reason there is a fetish of a very dangerous kind pervading our home, lives and our environment.

Have you ever thought about introducing a sex toy in to the relationship but not had the faintest idea how to go about it? Have a read, here are a few tips from 'them what know.'

Straight Single Guy: Men take a certain amount of pride in their bedroom abilities, and despite the fact that we intellectually know most women can’t orgasm from insertion alone, it bums us out. However, letting a guy know that his anatomy is acceptable (almost too acceptable, really) and that you just have different needs goes a long way towards soothing his ego. Throw in something about the mystery of female sexuality and that you’ll let him hold the device in question, thus providing him additional “skin in the game,” and it should be gravy. Unless he’s a jerk or a babyhead! The straight single guy is Tom Miller, you may be familiar with his blog Tomfoolery

Straight Married Guy: The dead cliché answer would be to remind him that  they’re only called “toys” and “novelties” to get around puritanical blue laws. In reality, you could tell him, sex “toys” are tools for sex. Guys like tools. But here’s a more original approach: Tell him, if someone brings a Monopoly board into the den it would be a pretty good sign she’d like to play with you, right? So if your partner brings a sex toy into the bedroom that’s an even better sign she wants to play with you.

And ladies if you have a close gay friend or several you may want to pass this one on - Gay Married Guy: Get over yourself. And bend over.

Now you know how have a look at some of these and really have some adult fun.

84% of men said their female partners definitely orgasmed last time they had sex. 64% or women said they orgasmed last time they had sex. Doh! Those figures don’t add up.

OUTDATED Speed thrills - UPDATED Slow down. Pulling back when she’s near climax and then resuming can enhance her orgasm. “Suspense raises the psychological arousal level,” says Quilliam.

OK, we’ll start with the given that you girls have experienced the joy of a vibrator. in your own expert hands. Have you thought about sharing that experience with your special man but are unsure how to get started? Here are a few clues. First check theses out, they’re discreet and totally, well almost totally, masculine.