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1. There's no such thing as "abnormal" masturbation. Experts are loath to offer specific definitions of "normal" and "abnormal," pointing out that men show great variations in both frequency and technique. “Humans are too diverse to establish a norm," says Betty Dodson, PhD, a New York City-based sexologist and the author of Sex for One every man masturbates in his own way, says Martha Cornog, the author of The Big Book of Masturbation, whether he "uses his hands, rubs against something, uses a sex toy or household object, wears special clothing, fantasizes, looks at a book or magazine, tries different positions, or looks in a mirror."

2. Masturbation is very safe -- but not entirely safe.

These days, there’s nothing skanky about taking classes in pole dancing, striptease or exotic dancing.

Modern women are all about empowerment, and there’s nothing more empowering than claiming their own sexuality through mastering the art of seduction.

We all know the equation. Zero naked girls = Boring. One naked girl = Great. Two naked girls = Dream come true.

But unless you’re single or dating a bisexual woman, threesomes can be almost impossible to arrange. How would your girlfriend or wife feel about watching you sleep with another woman in front of her? Would she even consider having sex with another woman?

For most guys, the only place they want to see a dildo is in their girlfriend’s vagina. But what if your girlfriend wanted to “hold the reins,” so to speak? What if she wanted to do to you what you do to her?

Sex with a strap-on is known as pegging, also known as “Bend Over Boyfriend” from the 1998 educational film by Fatale Media.

Although the role reversal is half the fun, straight guys shouldn’t discount the pleasure of anal sex, which stimulates the prostate and can lead to explosive orgasms.

Let’s get one thing clear:

You are not “gay” if you like your prostate stimulated. The same source of pleasure is available to all men, regardless of their sexuality.

Most guys know that their prostate is important because of the prevalence of prostate cancer. Fewer know that the purpose of the prostate is to produce a milky-white fluid that neutralizes the acidity of the vagina, giving sperm a better chance at surviving the long hike to the top.

But the prostate is much more than a reproductive organ that could become cancerous. It’s also the mother lode of male sexual pleasure.