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We all know the equation. Zero naked girls = Boring. One naked girl = Great. Two naked girls = Dream come true.

But unless you’re single or dating a bisexual woman, threesomes can be almost impossible to arrange. How would your girlfriend or wife feel about watching you sleep with another woman in front of her? Would she even consider having sex with another woman?

If you’re a happily wedded man or in a long-term relationship with a straight-laced girl, it may be easiest to resign threesomes to the realm of sexual fantasy. Some fantasies are most exciting when you can imagine anything you want, anyway. And if your imagination gets stuck, there’s always plenty of porn to help you out.

But if you’re unattached, there are plenty of opportunities to recruit two willing girls to explore new sexual horizons.

In fact, online sex talk show hosts Dan and Jennifer suggest that Britney Spears’ song “3” is a sign of the times. Are threesomes really the new “in”?

» Watch Dan and Jennifer discuss threesomes.

A poll of their readers found that most were split on the topic. Roughly a third would have a threesome with “no questions asked,” a third would have a threesome if the circumstances were right, and a third would never even consider a threesome.

Although those results aren’t necessarily reflective of the population as a whole, it’s true that there will always be a certain number of girls who are up to the idea.

MadeMan.com suggests 13 ways to have a threesome, and some of the ideas are pure genius. Drunken parties? Check. Jacuzzi? Check. Bi-curious women? Check.

But if you REALLY want to make it easy for yourself, visit a swingers clubs or sign up on a sex personals site. There are a number of websites that can link you up with other likeminded folk, including KiwiSwingers.co.nz, SensualEvents.co.nz, and our very own FREE personals and dating site.

Because, after all, if there's one thing that every man should experience once in a lifetime, it's having his ultimate sexual fantasy come true.