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Some women don’t like giving oral sex. Some women don’t mind giving it but don’t know how.

But, if you’re lucky, someday you’ll meet a woman who not only enjoys giving oral sex as much as she enjoys getting it, but also knows what she’s doing with a penis.

If your girlfriend doesn’t fall into the last category, don’t despair. There are ways to enjoy great oral sex regardless of whether your girlfriend is into it or not.

What are those ways, you might ask? Listen and learn.

Tip #1: Send her on a course.

No, we’re not talking about sending your girlfriend to another guy to learn how to give blowjobs. We’re talking about an online course – BJ Tutorial, to be specific.

BJ Tutorial has recently relaunched itself with new branding and a new blog. Its goal is to teach women to give their men mind-blowing oral pleasure.

You don’t have to buy the full course to get the benefits of what creator Allen Sharpe has to teach. Check out the BJ Tutorial website and have your girlfriend sign up to the free newsletter to get a 5-part special report that will immediately have her improving her technique.

Plus, the course will serve to get her excited about practicing what she’s learning on you – always a good thing!

Tip #2: Talk about it.

Sometimes, girls don’t actually understand how important oral sex is to a guy. They may think that giving blowjobs is something that only sluts do, or they may think there’s no point giving you a blowjob when you can go all the way.

Sexperts have a saying: “Unless you can talk to each other about sex, you shouldn’t be having it.” Similarly, unless you can talk to her about how important blowjobs are to you, you shouldn’t be complaining about not getting any.

Most girls are willing to do anything within reason to please their guy. If she has specific reasons for not wanting to give you a blowjob, you deserve to know what they are. Maybe taste is an issue for her; if so, you can shower immediately beforehand and ensure that your pubic hair is trimmed to make going down on you more attractive. Or maybe she thinks she has to swallow, and she doesn’t like the thought of swallowing semen; reassure her that you’ll tell her before you’re about to come so that she can finish you off with her hands, if she prefers.

Chances are, most of your issues can be resolved with a little conversation. But if there’s a major reason that she won’t or can’t give you blowjobs, there’s always one final option:

Tip #3: Ask her to give you a hand job … with a sex toy.

Sure, nothing beats the feeling of a woman’s lips around your penis, but if your sex partner is unwilling to give you blowjobs, then there’s still a way to get all the sensations of a blowjob without her opening her mouth.

Ask her to give you a hand job with the Senso Lips, a super-stretchy ribbed silicone sleeve. Once it’s lubed up, it will feel tight and smooth, giving you the feeling of oral sex.

Passion party organizers claim that older women are finding that these masturbatory aids are a great way to satisfy their young lovers. Even if she’s not up to having sex, she can still give you the time of your life with this Rumiko Rose Cyberskin Masturbator or the Sumi Sukai Cyberskin Masturbator.

Bonus Tip: For Single Dudes

And if you don’t have a girlfriend and have little chance of getting laid in the immediate future, don’t despair. There are sex toys that give you the feeling of oral sex, like this MTX1 Robotic Mouth with an internal stroking motor and pleasure beads, or this Oro-Simulator that “strokes” and “sucks” all on its own.

No guy should ever have to go without blowjobs. Check out these toys today, and enjoy the sensation!