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There’s not a man in the world who hasn’t suffered from loss of control.

You know what I’m talking about: the moment when you realize you’re not going to be able to hold on any longer. Add to that the embarrassment of just having gotten started, and you know why ejaculation control is the #1 prerequisite for a career in porn.

So how do porn stars control their ejaculation so that they can shoot on demand and not a moment before?

First of all, experience helps. The more sex you’ve had, the more relaxed your attitude.

Second, porn stars have advantages that other guys don’t. Mainly, they’ve already got a knack for controlling their erection on demand (guys who can’t don’t make it in the industry), they can do one scene in several takes, and rumor has it that some pop Viagra to make the job a little easier.

Third, some guys try to limit the amount of sensation they feel by using a desensitizing cream or “double-bagging,” i.e., wearing two condoms. It won’t feel as good, but it will help you last longer.

Fourth, there are a number of ejaculation control techniques out there, and most guys will come across two or three during their lifetime that really work for them. Some of these include:
  • Strengthening one’s PC muscles. Your pubococcygeus muscle is what allows you to raise and lower your penis. You also use it when you pee to stop the flow of urine. Strong PC muscles can help you have more explosive orgasms, prevent urinary incontinence, and control when you ejaculate.
  • Learn to anticipate when you’re about to come and switch tactics. Removing all sources of stimulation can help you get back in control. Whatever you do, don’t stop entirely. Switch your attention to pleasuring her until you feel in control again.
  • Practice sexual Tantra. Tantra techniques can enable you to have an orgasm without ejaculating. A word of warning: this is for serious disciples only, as it requires considerable training.
  • Try an ejaculation control course. There are a number of online resources out there promising to help you take control of your sexual pleasure, and one of the best is Alex Allman’s “Command & Control.” His free newsletter is informative and entertaining, and you can sign up for it (be warned: this isn't a site to visit at work or with your speakers blaring) at EjaculationDomination.com.
Lastly, one of the easiest ways to get a massive erection and keep it for longer is to use a cock ring.

Cock rings are available in a range of sizes to fit every penis, and users often find that they not only last longer, but they get better erections by wearing them.

Cock rings slip over the penis and testicles when you’re in an unaroused state. To put one on, slip through your testicles one by one, then fit your penis through. Use a little lube to make it easier.

Make sure that the cock ring fits snugly but isn’t so tight that it cuts off circulation or causes extreme swelling. Cock rings have caused plenty of trips to the emergency room, so make sure that you start with one that is easy to remove if you get in a jam. Metal cock rings are NOT recommended for beginners.

After intercourse, don’t fall asleep with your cock ring on. Take it off as soon as you’ve lost your erection. Otherwise, you run the risk of cutting off the blood flow to your penis and damaging the erectile tissue.

We here at Sex.com.au offer a number of cock rings in our online store. Beginners might want to start with a simple Beaded Cock Ring.

To find out what kind of cock ring works best for you, we offer the ultimate Cock Ring Kit containing five different rings that stimulate you in different ways. Experienced users might want to double their pleasure with a vibrating cock ring that stimulates their partner’s clitoris during intercourse.


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