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Greta Christina is lost in fantasy. What sexual acts would she like to perform, but never has?

Have sex on gym equipment? Get spanked? Watch other people having sex? Role play something seriously perverted? Get "violated by a tentacled demon in a Japanese anime porno"?

Greta Christina is the editor of Best Erotic Comics and Paying For It: A Guide by Sex Workers for Their Clients, so her sexual fantasies may be more detailed than most.

Read Greta's full list of sexual fantasies here.

But her list of 25 things she wants in bed brings up an interesting question.

What do YOU want in the sack?

Do you have sexual fantasies that remain in the realm of fantasy, because you’re not sure you really want to play them out?

How different are your sexual fantasies from your actual sexual experiences?

For most people, the sex they actually have is a world away from the kind of sex they fantasize about. They may enjoy looking at kinky porn but feel perfectly satisfied with a vanilla sex life with their partner.

Women aren’t any different.

Amelia McDonell-Parry, writing for TheFrisky.com, asked a small sample of women to tell her about their best sexual experience ever, and the result … well, let’s just say that it didn’t include anything on Greta Christina’s list.

Find out what five women consider the "best sex they ever had."

Women were getting excited over hours of foreplay, feeling a deep emotional connection to their partner, and a one-night stand with a studly musician.

No tentacles, no gym equipment, no spanking.

So do only sexually liberated women fantasize about getting caned while saying their Hail Marys? Or do most women have perverted sexual fantasies that they'd be too embarrassed to admit to a reporter?

You tell us!